Tantrum

What is a tantrum?

" A tantrum is most likely when a load of frustration -- often spiked with fear or anxiety -- builds up inside the toddler until she is so full of tension that only an explosion can release it..."



What happens during a tantrum?

" Children's behaviour during a full-blown tantrum varies, but your particular child will probably behave similarly each time: she may rush around the room,wild and screaming. Remember that she is out of control, so anything movable that happens to be in her path will be knocked flying. If you do not protect her, she may even crash into solid walls and heavy furniture. She may fling herself on the floor, writhing, kicking and
screaming as if she were fighting with demons. Anyone who gets within range is likely to get kicked -- so be careful if you try to pick her up. She may scream and scream until she makes herself hoarse; makes herself retch; even makes herself throw up.."


Source :http://www.babycenter.com.my 
 

Aku rase Aza sedang dalam stage Tantrum.

Sikit – sikit nak mengamuk. Pantang nampak orang tutup pintu, Pantang kalau kita tak bagi dia suap makan sendiri. Pantang kalau kita dukung dia time bawak dia keluar jalan – jalan.

Terus nangis guling – guling. Keluar air mata segala bagai. Tapi bila kita bagi apa dia nak, otomatik senyap sambil buat muka tak bersalah.

Sebab?

Sebab dia nak ikut kita keluar. Sebab dia nak makan suap sendiri. Sebab dia nak jalan.

Ok. Symptom – symptom ini telah membuatkan aku geram.

Apa yang aku buat?
Cuba bertolak ansur mana yang boleh. 
Tak mahu terlalu memanjakan dia sangat. 
Pada masa yang sama tidak mahu menghalang development otak dia.
Pada masa yang sama, tak mahu dia rasa takde orang caring kat dia. Chewwahh~

 

Ah sangat mencabar rasanya.